Tell us a little about you.

A short, thoughtful questionnaire — the quiet first step toward a group that feels right.

First name

Last name

Phone (optional)

City

What’s your age range?

Just an idea — you may be mixed with all ages.

25–35 36–46 47–57 58–68+

What’s your current season of life?

Single In a relationship Married Married with children Single mom

Day availability

Monday through Thursday — select all that work for you.

Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday

Time preference

Select all that apply.

10am–1pm 2pm–5pm 6pm–9pm

How would you describe your personality?

Select all that apply.

Outgoing Introverted In-between Deep thinker Go-with-the-flow Structured / planner

In social settings, you usually:

Jump right into conversation Warm up slowly Prefer one-on-one over groups

What do you enjoy doing?

Select all that apply.

Brunch / coffee Fitness / wellness Going out / nightlife Creative hobbies Self-growth / books / podcasts Outdoor activities Staying in / cozy nights

Ideal hangout vibe:

Chill & low-key Aesthetic & intentional Fun & energetic

How comfortable are you meeting new people?

Very comfortable A little nervous but open Pretty nervous

Tell us a little more about you.

We’d love to get to know you beyond the basics — your personality, lifestyle, interests, hobbies, current season of life, and the kind of friendships and experiences you’re hoping to create through Pillar Talk. Share as much as you’d like; it helps us place you in the perfect group.

I’d like to receive thoughtful updates from Pillar Talk by email.

Food and drinks are not included. Select gatherings may include a hosted drink or shared appetizer.

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